Most at times people believe that when choosing a lady for marriage, what should come in mind is : Is she presentable? Here "presentability" means good looking in the eyes of everyone! And such qualities includes height, being pretty, and literate. But i have come to believe that the first two comes before the last one which in the real sense should come first. The question is this: will you get married to a lady who is un-attractive but literate and good mannered?
Posted: at 18-08-2008 09:12 PM (15 years ago) | Newbie
darkocean002 at 19-08-2008 12:43 AM (15 years ago) (m)
Quote from: abwuz on 18-08-2008 09:12 PM
Most at times people believe that when choosing a lady for marriage, what should come in mind is : Is she presentable? Here "presentability" means good looking in the eyes of everyone! And such qualities includes height, being pretty, and literate. But i have come to believe that the first two comes before the last one which in the real sense should come first. The question is this: will you get married to a lady who is un-attractive but literate and good mannered?
yes i would.. infact will feel more comfortable with her,
Posted: at 19-08-2008 12:43 AM (15 years ago) | Gistmaniac
thats the truth Onyin.......... most guys feel very insecured with pretty girls. not inferiority complex but it comes naturally ...
U're right, but l intend to be a Totally Faithful Husband and so the way l see things is dat, my wife being hot, smart and decent (and dat Loves me so much) there will not be anythin else dat another has to offer........ Just how l see things
WHEN YU DIE YU TAKE NOTHING WITH YU, SO PLS PUT A SMILE ON YUR NEIGHBOR'S FACE
Posted: at 19-08-2008 01:28 AM (15 years ago) | Addicted Hero
i think it depends on the man as wel.sum men get jealous easily and they can't trust their wife or gf.can't stand seein their wifey or gf close to any other male than them.and tht's unfair."TRUST" tht word means so much in a relationship,cos witout tht no one can hv a good relationship.
Posted: at 19-08-2008 01:35 AM (15 years ago) | Hero
"Beauty is in the eyes of the beholder" It is a thing of the mind. If you say that she is what or who you want and she possesses everything you want in a lady, so be it and to God be the glory
Posted: at 19-08-2008 08:43 AM (15 years ago) | Upcoming
i think it depends on the man as wel.sum men get jealous easily and they can't trust their wife or gf.can't stand seein their wifey or gf close to any other male than them.and tht's unfair."TRUST" tht word means so much in a relationship,cos witout tht no one can hv a good relationship.
like u said TRUST means alot at same time got to be earned big time....u agree!
Posted: at 19-08-2008 08:52 AM (15 years ago) | Hero
goingwithyou at 19-08-2008 10:20 AM (15 years ago) (m)
Beauty of a lady is nothing too me just dat with dat alone she feel on top of d world and miss lead herself with proudness... Am dis am dat ...but to guy's when thinkin of life time partners i think will should do lot of our home work...
Posted: at 19-08-2008 10:20 AM (15 years ago) | Gistmaniac
philomena87 at 19-08-2008 06:34 PM (15 years ago) (f)
Quote from: darkocean002 on 19-08-2008 12:43 AM
Quote from: abwuz on 18-08-2008 09:12 PM
Most at times people believe that when choosing a lady for marriage, what should come in mind is : Is she presentable? Here "presentability" means good looking in the eyes of everyone! And such qualities includes height, being pretty, and literate. But i have come to believe that the first two comes before the last one which in the real sense should come first. The question is this: will you get married to a lady who is un-attractive but literate and good mannered?
yes i would.. infact will feel more comfortable with her,
love wat u said.. tas wat i will do too...
Posted: at 19-08-2008 06:34 PM (15 years ago) | Gistmaniac
princeishere at 19-08-2008 06:43 PM (15 years ago) (m)
Quote from: Saintty on 19-08-2008 08:43 AM
"Beauty is in the eyes of the beholder" It is a thing of the mind. If you say that she is what or who you want and she possesses everything you want in a lady, so be it and to God be the glory
WORD! u took that frm my mouth... I dnt believe in appearance...though... doesnt mean i dnt like goodlookin women but i can as well go for a village gurl train and 'PIMP' her up to my taste if she 's got what i want in a woman-regardless of her beauty
Posted: at 19-08-2008 06:43 PM (15 years ago) | Upcoming
Would you marry the devils sister becouse she is beutiful? I think not! I think beuty should be last thing on your mind when considering such a lifetime committement. After ten years of marriage she wont be as beutiful as she is today, what then? Divorce her for a younger and beutiful girl? As the wise say THE BEUTIFUL ONES ARE NOT YET BORN they will always be a more beutiful girl but are their characters the same???
Posted: at 18-06-2014 04:27 PM (9 years ago) | Newbie
Would you marry the devils sister becouse she is beutiful? I think not! I think beuty should be last thing on your mind when considering such a lifetime committement. After ten years of marriage she wont be as beutiful as she is today, what then? Divorce her for a younger and beutiful girl? As the wise say THE BEUTIFUL ONES ARE NOT YET BORN they will always be a more beutiful girl but are their characters the same???
Posted: at 18-06-2014 04:28 PM (9 years ago) | Newbie
if u wanna b happy 4 the rest of ur life..never make a pretty woman ur wife,so 4rm my personal point of view get an ugly gal 2 marry u..la la la lalala
Posted: at 19-06-2014 09:39 PM (9 years ago) | Newbie
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