If you were hurt by your spouse is it sweeter to keep your revenge for later?

Date: 13-10-2008 3:06 pm (16 years ago) | Author: olufalayi
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- at 13-10-2008 03:06 PM (16 years ago)
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Is it better to store hate?

Posted: at 13-10-2008 03:06 PM (16 years ago) | Newbie
- elizatops at 13-10-2008 03:16 PM (16 years ago)
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the best thing to do is to revenge immediately cos if u dont and u kip it to urself it can easily damage u and ur relationship with ur spouse
Posted: at 13-10-2008 03:16 PM (16 years ago) | Upcoming
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- SAmyrocko at 13-10-2008 04:48 PM (16 years ago)
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True Love doesn't Revenge wrongs... rather correct the person and you both will grow and learn not to be doing the things that will bring such prblms.. If you revenge it shows there is no love in ur midst.

Posted: at 13-10-2008 04:48 PM (16 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- mazi at 15-10-2008 08:45 AM (16 years ago)
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Quote from: olufalayi on 13-10-2008 03:06 PM
Is it better to store hate?
did i read revenge?...on ya spouse?
how on earth did she/he become ya spouse? Shocked Shocked

Posted: at 15-10-2008 08:45 AM (16 years ago) | Hero
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- prencess at 15-10-2008 10:26 AM (16 years ago)
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no comment
Posted: at 15-10-2008 10:26 AM (16 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- walerian at 15-10-2008 10:32 AM (16 years ago)
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revenge is never the best solution weather its ur spouse or not. u cld talk it over n adjust on it.
Posted: at 15-10-2008 10:32 AM (16 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- mazi at 15-10-2008 12:40 PM (16 years ago)
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Quote from: prencess on 15-10-2008 10:26 AM
no comment
very well
u r right to shut it dis time.
u b pikin na...dis na 4 adults. Grin
Posted: at 15-10-2008 12:40 PM (16 years ago) | Hero
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- prencess at 15-10-2008 04:47 PM (16 years ago)
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i done tell u to stop calling me small pikin i be lady u dont hear word
Posted: at 15-10-2008 04:47 PM (16 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- philomena87 at 18-10-2008 04:27 PM (16 years ago)
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Quote from: olufalayi on 13-10-2008 03:06 PM
Is it better to store hate?

me i no dey get patient ooo
i dey spack immediately only if ther's need...
cos i cant hold sometin tat hurts me for long .. and even doh i try to do tat
i wont like to revenge later .. cos i will feel stupid....
Posted: at 18-10-2008 04:27 PM (16 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- pally4biuti at 18-10-2008 04:38 PM (16 years ago)
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Quote from: olufalayi on 13-10-2008 03:06 PM
Is it better to store hate?
why would want to revenge bcos even u urself was hurt nd u pass through all the emotional trauma so wat is so sweet abut you taking a revenge! will dat help ur relationship - both parties.

Posted: at 18-10-2008 04:38 PM (16 years ago) | Upcoming
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- peacetee at 21-10-2008 02:09 PM (16 years ago)
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Quote from: possibility on 18-10-2008 04:53 PM
rebuke your spouse immediately but dont revenge.the bible says vengeance is mine, thus says the Lord.
possibilityworld

are u a he/she? just wondering

@ topic
Possibility has spoken

Posted: at 21-10-2008 02:09 PM (16 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- mmemshima at 22-10-2008 01:56 PM (16 years ago)
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has hatred ever benefited anyone?the tym u use to build up hatred should be used to set things right...besides u might as well be wasting ur tym cuz ur spouse may not be aware u're boiling inside,u heart and mind should be used 4 better things abeg...
Posted: at 22-10-2008 01:56 PM (16 years ago) | Upcoming
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- peacetee at 22-10-2008 02:44 PM (16 years ago)
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tell em sis  Wink

Posted: at 22-10-2008 02:44 PM (16 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- bittersweet at 6-02-2011 09:49 AM (14 years ago)
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Quote from: olufalayi on 13-10-2008 03:06 PM
Is it better to store hate?

No!
React when it happens!

Posted: at 6-02-2011 09:49 AM (14 years ago) | Hero
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- xena15 at 6-02-2011 10:46 AM (14 years ago)
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Quote from: mazi on 15-10-2008 08:45 AM
Quote from: olufalayi on 13-10-2008 03:06 PM
Is it better to store hate?
did i read revenge?...on ya spouse?
how on earth did she/he become ya spouse? Shocked Shocked



Posted: at 6-02-2011 10:46 AM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- purityjustice at 6-02-2011 10:48 AM (14 years ago)
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Posted: at 6-02-2011 10:48 AM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- truenaija2 at 6-02-2011 11:06 AM (14 years ago)
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why should you revenge r u a devil pikin why not forgive
Posted: at 6-02-2011 11:06 AM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- livingday at 6-02-2011 12:52 PM (14 years ago)
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Quote from: mazi on 15-10-2008 08:45 AM
Quote from: olufalayi on 13-10-2008 03:06 PM
Is it better to store hate?
did i read revenge?...on ya spouse?
how on earth did she/he become ya spouse? Shocked Shocked



When send your adulterous wife packing from your house, what are you doing if not punishing her for hurting you? That is revenge!
If you dont do it immediately but later, you will be storing hatred! It is better to revenge immediately than later.
Posted: at 6-02-2011 12:52 PM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- williams100 at 6-02-2011 02:41 PM (14 years ago)
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IT IS 100% WRONG TO KEEP REVENGE OR VENGEANGE PLOT IN YOUR MIND BECAUSE IF YOU TRULY LOVE SOMEONE YOU WONT CARE ABOUT THAT.UNDERSTAND THAT LOVE IS NOT SWEETNESS OR ENJOYMENT.LOVE IS ALL ABOUT PAIN AND TILL YOU FIND THAT HARD ENOUGH PAIN INSIDE OF YOU TO LOVE SOMEONE TRULY AND GENUINELY THEN YOU KNOW YOU GOT THE PICTURE.ALSO,NOBODY IS PERFECT BECAUSE WE ALL HAVE FLAWS NO ONE IS COMPLETELY FLAWLESS REMEMBER THAT............
Posted: at 6-02-2011 02:41 PM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- dirtykid at 6-02-2011 02:52 PM (14 years ago)
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Quote from: olufalayi on 13-10-2008 03:06 PM
Is it better to store hate?


Why the revenge or Store hatred ? if is your spouse ? What has happened to talk it over, forgive and forget,  when it comes to spouse issue.

Posted: at 6-02-2011 02:52 PM (14 years ago) | Hero
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