Must Ladies Cook For Men? (Page 13)

Quote from: cyndi3 on 15-04-2011 07:00 PM

For me, cookin is nothin, I enjoy cookin more than eatin sef, unless he wants to try somethin diff, maybe he knows one or two recipe that he wants to impress me, why not...but that kitchen na my Knox

Ok good 4 u na , i also enjoy cooking sometimes...but not necessarily 4 anymore

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Posted: at 16-04-2011 04:53 AM (13 years ago) | Hero

i enjoy making his meals,but when am down or tired he does the cooking thing.or some times i take care of the baby an he do the cooking.it fun huh?

Posted: at 16-04-2011 07:31 AM (13 years ago) | Upcoming

i no knw where una get d idea frm,, but our men can cook oooo,, abeg check master chef

all of dem male.

Posted: at 16-04-2011 11:17 AM (13 years ago) | Addicted Hero

 i can cook my dear but i was not taught to cook so i can go around cooking for men that are not my husband , i was taught to cook so i can enjoy good food anywhere anytime and so later i can cook for my kids and for my husband , what will even bring about a man asking me too cook such has not happen to me before , cos i have self respect and i dont go around making myself look like a cook and ride over by a man , not even the richest guys i went out with asked me to cook , they had their cooks when i came they were glad to go into the kitchen and cook something special for me and discharge their cook , i am a proud daughter of my father and mother , i dont live with men when u as a boyfriend sees me its an honor so i am not the easy girl  i am dat girl with self esteem principles and home training, any man that wants to enjoy the position of a husband should marry the girl but of course that is only if i say yes so my dear there are different class of girls and i am dat girl that knows who i am and where i am coming from ,

Posted: at 16-04-2011 11:27 AM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac

i kno say na the thin when una like then what will be doing at home

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Posted: at 16-04-2011 11:30 AM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac

cooking for your husband should be a primary,secondary and tertiary responsibility of a lady to her man and house hold.there should be zero tolerance for inexcusable inadequacy of unseriousness.however,when she is tired sometimes,maybe ill,far away from home and other miscellaneous predefine reasons;the husband can help out with the household chores to cooking and others.infact it should be done with love by a wife to her husband and household and not just seen as a responsibility or obligation.
turning to the issue of boyfriend/girfriend,it is not a superimposed obligation that it is a responsibility,compulsory or a neccessity that you must do it.its best a lady use her own instinctal discretion and assertion to do it sometimes or when she feels like it.note, that does not mean when your guy tells you to do it for him you will get cynical over the issue and bring terms of feminist theorem of equality into the pregnant situation saying(am not yet your wife,am not your slave,you can do it for me but i cant do it for you etc).only when he expects it too much from you then you can object and say what pleases you.all ladies are not one some dont care about all these while,it mean alot to some.like i have always said if you as a man want to remain the dominant specie and be on the fore-front then you had better practice and master the role of both male and female after which you will be left with one thing you cant learn or do(child bearing).the modern day 21st century lady(majority of them) now have the notion that they should be plaudited and given credit for anything and everything they do,be given a defined reason for wanting to do certain things e.t.c.but if its been done by the male, they say its the man's sole responsibility and he should fulfil it.so much for fairness and equality right..?guess we all will have to deal with it or what do you think....?.

Posted: at 16-04-2011 12:52 PM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac

ok i am appealing to all the ladies in the house to advice {preetyinstinct} to know how to cook or learn how to cook orelse she will loose her f or h in the future...that is my only advice for you preetyinstinct......

Posted: at 17-04-2011 12:31 PM (13 years ago) | Upcoming

it depends..

Posted: at 17-04-2011 01:15 PM (13 years ago) | Upcoming

NO GIRL, AM NOT ABUSING YOU, AM JUST GENERALIZING IT. AND AM NOT TALKING OF COOKING FOR THE BOYFRIEND EITHER. BUT RATHER FOR THE REAL MAN, THE HUSBAND..

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Posted: at 18-04-2011 03:42 AM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac

I like cooking because is part of me?

Posted: at 18-04-2011 09:31 AM (13 years ago) | Newbie