CHILDHOOD AND GROWING UP ILLS..........

As a matter of fact, some of us are sincere in this forum.

we talk about our experiences to look for ways of avoiding
our own children from inheriting the ugly ones.

So when we raise such topics pls advice and criticise constructively...
while i was a child i peeped several perfomance by dad and mum......
while growing up, i used mirror in primary school to watch panties.
while growing up i i peep thru the windows and available holes to
admire wonderful Bosom  and available honey pots.

Does these things still happen?
What are the best ways of handling our children to avoid such behaviours?

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Posted: at 31-05-2011 03:23 PM (13 years ago) | Hero

are u sure rehab centres dey naija?

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Posted: at 31-05-2011 03:32 PM (13 years ago) | Hero

i will gladly visit one if u are the doctor!

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Posted: at 31-05-2011 03:37 PM (13 years ago) | Hero

no be me post am
na person use my id post am in my absence!

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Posted: at 31-05-2011 03:41 PM (13 years ago) | Hero

Use the art of complimenting
Teach your child to be comfortable giving and receiving compliments. Tell your child, "What a handsome boy you are" or "How pretty you look in that dress!" Eye and body contact during your delivery reinforces the sincerity of your acknowledgment. Make sure you're sincere. When you hear your children complimenting one another, compliment yourself for your modeling.

Children with weak self-worth have difficulty giving and receiving compliments. They are so hung up on how they imagine the receiver will take their tribute, that they clam up; they feel so unworthy of any compliment that they shrug off the compliment and put off the complimenter. If you are like that as a person, learn to give and take a compliment yourself so that you can model this to your child. Compliment yourself, "I feel good about the sale I made today!" Acknowledge your child's praise, "You're the best mommy." "Thank you, honey, I like to hear that." Some mothers (and fathers) hear these words often, yet deny the truth of their child's words by the outward response they give (sighing, gulping, frowning, shrugging or grimacing) and by their internal guilt trip. If this is you, get some help believing what your child intuitively knows—you're the best parent for this child. Parental self-image directly affects children's self-confidence and the ability to give and receive compliments comfortably.

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Posted: at 31-05-2011 03:44 PM (13 years ago) | Addicted Hero

see where ur mind dey drive u go again...u will never stop

Posted: at 31-05-2011 03:47 PM (13 years ago) | Hero

 

Posted: at 31-05-2011 04:03 PM (13 years ago) | Hero

Seconded

Posted: at 31-05-2011 04:11 PM (13 years ago) | Hero

Gbam!

Posted: at 31-05-2011 04:13 PM (13 years ago) | Hero

not matured yet

Posted: at 31-05-2011 04:24 PM (13 years ago) | Hero