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f**k d guy. Maybe he ws lukin 4 a reason 2 cal off d weddin al along. 4uk adoption 1ce d luv is dey dats al dat matters. Reply
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Quote from: divineproject on 5-09-2011 02:43 PM Here is the scenario: [/b][/color] They were two of a kind. They have dated for over a year and he had proposed to her. She had accepted the marriage proposal and arrangement was in top gear to make the occasion a memorable one. This was because he is the crown prince of their town and she came from a wealthy home. Two weeks before the wedding, the lady decided to tell the prince something about her which she was sure he doesnt know. He was an adopted child from one of the various charity homes. Her current parents are not her biological parents. When the guy heard this, his face fell and he walked out on the lady. Three days later he called the lady to cancel the wedding, his reason being thus: (a) As a crown prince, he was supposed to marry a daughter from the town. Now that she was adopted, no one knows her lineage or where she actually hails from.(since she was adopted,the certainty of tracing her lineage would be very difficult if not next to impossible). (b) As an intending hubby, he would like to know the historical background of his intending bride.(the adopted family can do all that for him.but,the originality of getting to know her true historical background may very well appear to be visibly impossible.)no fault should be attributed to her.... (c) He would also like to know the lady's family history medically.(no biological family so no history.but he can tell her to make medical provision of her health status while he,should also extend the same courtesy in return to display his own medical report) Now all these might not be possible becos no one is sure of where she hails from and who her biological parents are.(of course not). Now I ask, are the above remains cogent enough to warrant an end to the relationship?(personally speaking,it is a ridiculous and ophobic act to end a relationship because of these mere (irrelevant)thats the best word i will choose to describe it). Can you as a man or woman end a relationship if you find out that your proposed spouse was adopted?(once again,i can't,i won't and will never.perhaps,it may torpedo my sleeping furiosity at first which i very much doubt it will with robust scepticism.but then again,its still not enough to put an end to a relationship that has even gotten to the stage of marriage.geez!!it is an act of cold cruelty,inconsideration and heartlessness.) So let's go there! NOTE-the lady in the said topic,ought to have disclosed such infos to the prince previously by "coming out clean" at the chapter one of their relationship.so as to know if he can be able to continue or not.just the way we all have different faces, its also the same way we have different thoughts/thinking.for me its barely nothing to bother myself with.but for the prince.wow!!!it really was an issue for him.i hope he employs RECONSIDERATION....
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if this really happened then leave it as it was meant to be, its the culture plain and simple to know the history of your bride or groom to be simple Reply
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He never liked her in the first place that's why he called off the relatrionshiip Reply
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i tink d prince sud 4get all those traditional stuffs and go ahead wit d marriage except he has order personal motives Reply
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Is nt enough reason at all becos if he loves dat girl he will nt call off d wedding. On d other hand d girl made a mistake 4 nt telling him earlier 2 avoid dis public embarrestment. Moreover they can still make up if d true love is there becos is nt her fault dat she was adpoted. Reply
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So unfortunate, the truth is bitter and a lot of people are not emotionally ready to handle truths, that can explain why people either lie or keep some information away from people they love.......but should one then keep important info away from people we love simply becos we think they cant handle the truth? ReplyA LITTLE HELP HERE; A LITTLE HELP THERE, MAKES THE WORLD GO ROUND!
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That's no reason. Reply
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Every body is entitled to his/her belief,cultural practice has made a lot of intending spouse to end their courtship. I will gladly marry an adopted lady if both of us truly love each oda. Reply
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He didn't love her enough period. Reply
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No comment until i experience it. Reply
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Bull shit! What's wrong with asking her this question before proposing to her? Reply
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She should look past d guy nd move on wit her life...someone who will love her 4 who she is will definitely meet her Reply
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He does nt ve any reason.if dr z love he shuld nt ve done dt.it means he wnt to marry her bcs she z frm wealthy house b4 bt nw dt he discovered he suppose to take like dt.bt as for d girl she shuld ve let him kw if she kwen b4 dt she z an adopted child Reply
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Maybe she thought it doesnt matter...........probably was trying to step the records straight.........probably never expected such reaction from the guy ReplyA LITTLE HELP HERE; A LITTLE HELP THERE, MAKES THE WORLD GO ROUND!
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Well, if the Prince is not operatin based on God's given wisdom, he may not knw exactly what to do. But He is doin that becos of tradition or soul. He may b thinkin that she is a setup. But the adopted parents should join hands to do the investigation. There are 50% chance that they may end up marryin each other. In this case, is like there is no identity. And if this Prince truelly loves her, he will understand. atleast, she open up b4 the weddin Reply
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This is unfair because the lady as no place to go but for the lady she made a big mistake she should have let the price know about this before now and for the guy this is a silly mistake if he really love the lady he will not care may she was adopted or not. Lady if is your guy he will surely come back to you but if his not God will provide you yours. Reply
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The reasons are not cogent enof,bt because of his crown he may be pardoned Reply
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