thowbee at 13-06-2011 10:42 AM (13 years ago) (f) girls! girls!! girls!!!...............weneva I hear shitty stuffs like this...I jus get so so so mad...................u invested 3 yrs?? and u did not know what he's capable of??....and am pretty sure u jus let him walk out calmly..........................u shldn't have even listened to the end of the statement...................as soon as u hear these "Honey, i came to let you know it ain't working between us no more...u give him a beautiful bitch-slap...then as he is bout saying this 'am making up with my ex'..ur picking up a gun and loading it...b4 he can think of saying this "am sorry".....uv killed him......
buh no kidding....uv got to cry a river, build a bridge and majestically cross over.............
A man who can do this to u after everythin uv done for him....aint worthy enough to walk close to ur shadow.....simple...
in all 3yrs, he was like one who couldn't hurt a fly...seriously, how could i hav known he had a timed bomb waiting? the more reason y u cld have killed the modaka........jus kiddin tho....it can't happen overnyt....there most have been signs u missed....not saying its ur fault buh u cld have avoided this by paying attention to details......guys don't jus sprout up wit such things in a night.......there were obvious signs u missed... d only visible signs were his frequent complains of me not having much time for 'us' few months after i got my present modelling contract and i also figured he gets real uncomfortable with the calibre of people he sees around me and those i work with...one could comfortably call it inferiority complex kinda thing u kno...we talked about it and i thought we sorted things out then this!.....is it now a crime to be an independent woman? honey...I don't wanna say this buh 'frequent complains'....'not having much time'.....'.uncomfortable with the company u keep'........it was pretty clear u needed to prepare for d-day....besides if u r comfortable being independent and he's got a problem with all uv said...u shld have dumped his ass.......he shld be happy with anything that makes u smile....if he isn't then @$#$%$...........am jus saying wat I'ld do.....I would dump a guy who doesn't like ma person and isn't willing to understand..infact if u bug me...I will dump u from here to Congo...
jus move on... Posted: at 13-06-2011 10:42 AM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac | |
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Emmandazie at 13-06-2011 10:43 AM (13 years ago) (m) d only visible signs were his frequent complains of me not having much time for 'us' few months after i got my present modelling contract and i also figured he gets real uncomfortable with the calibre of people he sees around me and those i work with...one could comfortably call it inferiority complex kinda thing u kno...we talked about it and i thought we sorted things out then this!..... is it now a crime to be an independent woman?Not a crime depending on the way you handle it. If you enable him know it is for him/thanks to him that you're getting what you got, and put him in the center of your actions then it will be a blessing being an independent woman. Posted: at 13-06-2011 10:43 AM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac | |
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virus232 at 13-06-2011 10:46 AM (13 years ago) (f) He came to my beautiful crib, eat my delicious food, drank my exotic wine, f*cked me on my luxurious bed, took a shower in my expensive bathroom, put on the expensive gucci outfit i bought him on his birthday only to open his shitty mouth and..."Honey, i came to let you know it ain't working between us no more...am making up with my ex...am sorry"
After investing 3 yrs of my wonderful life in this shitty affair...What do i do to the dick head???
Hmmmm too bad, You must have been messing up with him for quite some time. So he decide to do it that way, is like a god that kills someone the day life is sweeten the person. But if i may ask, what did you do to him to treat you this way at the end?? Can you also list for us the the things he's been doing for you as well, since both of you are in the relationship, not because you're the one that spend/treat him good the day he decide not to carry on with you, I believe he must have been doing some spree spending spending on you as well, and you must have fcuked him on his own expensive cushion etc.. its not about the spendings or expensive stuffs...he wanted me to quit modelling...dats d point
A BAD GIRL CAN BECOME A GOOD GIRL BUT WHEN A GOOD GIRL GOES BAD SHES GONE FOREVER Posted: at 13-06-2011 10:46 AM (13 years ago) | Newbie | |
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Emmandazie at 13-06-2011 10:47 AM (13 years ago) (m) Poster, which one hurt you pass: the money spent or the fcuking? If it is your expenses, forget, you will still make more. If it the fcuking, forget go get someone else. If you can't find any, come to my waiting hands!
i see hope ya hands re big enuf for 2  Oh O2 of my life, you know how ma hands big na? Besides, no forget sey I be prince and king-to-be in my fada's kingdom. Posted: at 13-06-2011 10:47 AM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac | |
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dirtykid at 13-06-2011 10:54 AM (13 years ago) (m) He came to my beautiful crib, eat my delicious food, drank my exotic wine, f*cked me on my luxurious bed, took a shower in my expensive bathroom, put on the expensive gucci outfit i bought him on his birthday only to open his shitty mouth and..."Honey, i came to let you know it ain't working between us no more...am making up with my ex...am sorry"
After investing 3 yrs of my wonderful life in this shitty affair...What do i do to the dick head???
Hmmmm too bad, You must have been messing up with him for quite some time. So he decide to do it that way, is like a god that kills someone the day life is sweeten the person. But if i may ask, what did you do to him to treat you this way at the end?? Can you also list for us the the things he's been doing for you as well, since both of you are in the relationship, not because you're the one that spend/treat him good the day he decide not to carry on with you, I believe he must have been doing some spree spending spending on you as well, and you must have fcuked him on his own expensive cushion etc.. its not about the spendings or expensive stuffs...he wanted me to quit modelling...dats d point You see to that, He got his reasons for his actions, Not that he's just burst in and do all that you said and drop you !! If anyone will read your post, will criticize the dude, But i always know there's two sides of a coin. Maybe both of you are not compatible to many things and most times, guys don't like hor argue and nagging. There's more to the edited story but only the teller knows it all. My advice is" Look back and see if there's reason in what the problems/his complains are all about, check if is something you can consider, if not, You can stay on your own and let it go'' Move on and b happy, if you're happy without him.
DirtyKid is a Happy Kid !!.....FATHER !! I've cast my bread on the waters long time ago. Now it's time 4u to return it, well buttered !! Posted: at 13-06-2011 10:54 AM (13 years ago) | Hero | |
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Abolore05 at 13-06-2011 11:22 AM (13 years ago) (f) babe.....na so life b no mind am, he doesn't deserve u frm d start dose who worth ur tears will never make u cry sh*t happens, gud u've picked d pieces of ur broken hrt and moved on.......... Posted: at 13-06-2011 11:22 AM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac | |
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slimben at 13-06-2011 01:41 PM (13 years ago) (m) hahaha am Posted: at 13-06-2011 01:41 PM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac | |
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50scent at 13-06-2011 07:07 PM (13 years ago) (m)
RELATIONSHIP & ROMANCE FORUM; MINISTER FOR WOMEN AFFAIRS WELCOMES YOU  Posted: at 13-06-2011 07:07 PM (13 years ago) | Addicted Hero | |
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Michro at 13-06-2011 07:13 PM (13 years ago) (m) @ poster, kill him
I am as gentle as a dove and as wise as a serpent Posted: at 13-06-2011 07:13 PM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac | |
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50scent at 13-06-2011 07:17 PM (13 years ago) (m)
RELATIONSHIP & ROMANCE FORUM; MINISTER FOR WOMEN AFFAIRS WELCOMES YOU  Posted: at 13-06-2011 07:17 PM (13 years ago) | Addicted Hero | |
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Michro at 13-06-2011 07:33 PM (13 years ago) (m) hahahahaha how u dey?
I am as gentle as a dove and as wise as a serpent Posted: at 13-06-2011 07:33 PM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac | |
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kebella at 13-06-2011 07:55 PM (13 years ago) (f)
my name is kebella ........yu already no that ...heheh...if yu wanna smell what kebella is cooking........bring it up!! Posted: at 13-06-2011 07:55 PM (13 years ago) | Addicted Hero | |
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:'( :'( Posted: at 13-06-2011 07:58 PM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac | |
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oops i was hoping to see a nife in the heart...but rather its a virus.. Posted: at 13-06-2011 07:59 PM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac | |
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kebella at 13-06-2011 08:03 PM (13 years ago) (f)
my name is kebella ........yu already no that ...heheh...if yu wanna smell what kebella is cooking........bring it up!! Posted: at 13-06-2011 08:03 PM (13 years ago) | Addicted Hero | |
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Posted: at 13-06-2011 08:09 PM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac | |
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kebella at 13-06-2011 08:25 PM (13 years ago) (f)
my name is kebella ........yu already no that ...heheh...if yu wanna smell what kebella is cooking........bring it up!! Posted: at 13-06-2011 08:25 PM (13 years ago) | Addicted Hero | |
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if na this tin i dey tink na him u dey tink too... if e happen no be my fault oo know say na u cause am Posted: at 13-06-2011 08:30 PM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac | |
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kebella at 13-06-2011 08:41 PM (13 years ago) (f) e be lyke sey na d same tin dey do me so
my name is kebella ........yu already no that ...heheh...if yu wanna smell what kebella is cooking........bring it up!! Posted: at 13-06-2011 08:41 PM (13 years ago) | Addicted Hero | |
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onyiis at 14-06-2011 10:36 AM (13 years ago) (f) First thing First...tell him to pay you back all those expensive things he used in your house and the gucci clothes..you got for him on his HBD....now the next step is don't fight him..because he is not worth the fight..i understand it hurt but you have to move on than to end up in jail for nobody...
cant retrieve stuffs i bought him...am too matured for that. honestly i think he deserves a bullet to d head using me d way he did. It could also mean u offered him urself on a platter of gold Naaaa...we started off in college when i was a nobody. He was like an angel That is it ........u fail for his "angelic attitude" which he changed when he got what he wanted
"Those who will say nothing in the face of tyranny must endure the rule of idiots . All that you need for evil to triumph is for the good people to keep quiet and do nothing". Posted: at 14-06-2011 10:36 AM (13 years ago) | Hero | |
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