Sensitive Situation: Opinion Naijapals, What Would She Do With The Pregnancy? (Page 2)

Date: 09-05-2013 11:42 pm (10 years ago) | Author: franel
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- diamondjewel at 10-05-2013 07:24 AM (10 years ago)
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Everybody  ‎​Ȋ̝̊̅§  just saying it as though its easy.  D̶̲̥̅̊  deed as been done but put ursef  ‎​I̶̲̥̅̊n̶̲̥̅̊  her hubby shoes? Hw would  ‎​U̶̲̥̅̊ feel raising another mans child  ‎​I̶̲̥̅̊n̶̲̥̅̊  your home. Knowing fully well it was as a result  ☺ƒ  ur wifes infidel and which he has ₪☺ issue  ☺ƒ  his home. Such marriage wld neva b  D̶̲̥̅̊  same again even  D̶̲̥̅̊  so called God fearing Christains wld react.let  D̶̲̥̅̊  wife just kip asking God  ‎​Ƒσя̥ forgiveness
Posted: at 10-05-2013 07:24 AM (10 years ago) | Newbie
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- lanudja at 10-05-2013 07:33 AM (10 years ago)
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Shot of words...Dnt knw what 2 say... Stay away frm drunkenness bcos dat was d genesis of it all.
Posted: at 10-05-2013 07:33 AM (10 years ago) | Hero
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- F_B_I at 10-05-2013 07:40 AM (10 years ago)
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Quote from: Shydaimma on 10-05-2013 12:38 AM
Sad story bt interestin. Abortion is out of this, she shouldn't even think of it  . The best thing to do is to wait on the husband and tell him what exactly happened, confess to her husband. As for her ex, he is married with kids. That she is pregnant for him doesn't mean she should come between him and his wife and kids. If the husband comes back and ve heard the whole story, is up to him to decide if he wanna take the woman and the child or throw her out. If he throws the woman out,  I pray for her  for God's strenght  in carryin the baby and raising it.  Ofcourse the father of the child (her ex)  can assits but she shouldn't come between him and his wife and kids.  She should beg her husband day and night who knows he might have change of heart. She shouldnt just go after been thrown out, she should keep comin and begging for forgiveness. Some men no matter how much they love their wife, will react aggressively. But that doesnt mean they dont love their wife.  So beggin him can change his heart. Some will relunctantly refuse to accept her and the baby. Well men are different. Let her just wait and see wht her husby will do.

Why is everybody buying dis ur Contemporary advice. Dis is Africa Shawlty! If you were the husband, would you take her back? It is high level of INFIDELITY. assuming She was not pregnant, don't you think she'd likely continue to be cheating? There's a clitche that, "once a soldier is always a soldier" dis has a vast interpretation. You Think the man is a wood and probably not getting pressure from his family for grand children? Yet, he remained faithful because of love Most likely. Adoptiion would have been a better option than outcast ( child born out of wed lock ). I'd rather forgive a prostitute who wishes to repent and settle down than an adultrous wife. My advise is for her to give herself the woman dignity and leaves before the man comes back. She could be much better as a single Mum or better still go struggle space in her Ex home than standing the shame of looking into her husband's eyes asking for forgiveness. Ladies and Gentleman, forgiveness is of the Lord!

Posted: at 10-05-2013 07:40 AM (10 years ago) | Newbie
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- ezchusa at 10-05-2013 07:53 AM (10 years ago)
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get a tie suit yourself

Posted: at 10-05-2013 07:53 AM (10 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- beneno at 10-05-2013 07:57 AM (10 years ago)
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Quote from: F_B_I on 10-05-2013 07:40 AM
Why is everybody buying dis ur Contemporary advice. Dis is Africa Shawlty! If you were the husband, would you take her back? It is high level of INFIDELITY. assuming She was not pregnant, don't you think she'd likely continue to be cheating? There's a clitche that, "once a soldier is always a soldier" dis has a vast interpretation. You Think the man is a wood and probably not getting pressure from his family for grand children? Yet, he remained faithful because of love Most likely. Adoptiion would have been a better option than outcast ( child born out of wed lock ). I'd rather forgive a prostitute who wishes to repent and settle down than an adultrous wife. My advise is for her to give herself the woman dignity and leaves before the man comes back. She could be much better as a single Mum or better still go struggle space in her Ex home than standing the shame of looking into her husband's eyes asking for forgiveness. Ladies and Gentleman, forgiveness is of the Lord! i like this comment
Posted: at 10-05-2013 07:57 AM (10 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- beneno at 10-05-2013 07:59 AM (10 years ago)
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Quote from: F_B_I on 10-05-2013 07:40 AM
Why is everybody buying dis ur Contemporary advice. Dis is Africa Shawlty! If you were the husband, would you take her back? It is high level of INFIDELITY. assuming She was not pregnant, don't you think she'd likely continue to be cheating? There's a clitche that, "once a soldier is always a soldier" dis has a vast interpretation. You Think the man is a wood and probably not getting pressure from his family for grand children? Yet, he remained faithful because of love Most likely. Adoptiion would have been a better option than outcast ( child born out of wed lock ). I'd rather forgive a prostitute who wishes to repent and settle down than an adultrous wife. My advise is for her to give herself the woman dignity and leaves before the man comes back. She could be much better as a single Mum or better still go struggle space in her Ex home than standing the shame of looking into her husband's eyes asking for forgiveness. Ladies and Gentleman, forgiveness is of the Lord!
i like this ur advice
Posted: at 10-05-2013 07:59 AM (10 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- crusifixo at 10-05-2013 08:00 AM (10 years ago)
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Quote from: Shydaimma on 10-05-2013 12:38 AM
Sad story bt interestin. Abortion is out of this, she shouldn't even think of it  . The best thing to do is to wait on the husband and tell him what exactly happened, confess to her husband. As for her ex, he is married with kids. That she is pregnant for him doesn't mean she should come between him and his wife and kids. If the husband comes back and ve heard the whole story, is up to him to decide if he wanna take the woman and the child or throw her out. If he throws the woman out,  I pray for her  for God's strenght  in carryin the baby and raising it.  Ofcourse the father of the child (her ex)  can assits but she shouldn't come between him and his wife and kids.  She should beg her husband day and night who knows he might have change of heart. She shouldnt just go after been thrown out, she should keep comin and begging for forgiveness. Some men no matter how much they love their wife, will react aggressively. But that doesnt mean they dont love their wife.  So beggin him can change his heart. Some will relunctantly refuse to accept her and the baby. Well men are different. Let her just wait and see wht her husby will do.

Babe !   what are you saying?....she cheated for crying out loud...i cant believe you are giving her an OSCAR for that.
Posted: at 10-05-2013 08:00 AM (10 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- crusifixo at 10-05-2013 08:04 AM (10 years ago)
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Naijapal is full of hypocrites....see everyone acting cool like it ok you can phuck my wife get her pregnant and everything is cool....as far as am concern you don't phuck a brother's wife and everything is cool....decision has to be made and this decision are only made by real MEN.......too many phucking bois all over naijapal.............. Angry Angry Angry Angry Angry Angry
Posted: at 10-05-2013 08:04 AM (10 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- edusouls at 10-05-2013 08:05 AM (10 years ago)
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It shows the woman is loose, and has a bad friend,taking a married woman to party while her husband is not around ! See women are there own worst enemies, even if the husband 4gives her which is almost impossible,the trust and happiness is dead in the marriage... Thats the price of marrying girlfriend material and wife material....
Posted: at 10-05-2013 08:05 AM (10 years ago) | Upcoming
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- proly at 10-05-2013 08:25 AM (10 years ago)
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kkk
Posted: at 10-05-2013 08:25 AM (10 years ago) | Hero
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- sokunbi at 10-05-2013 08:34 AM (10 years ago)
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Better to keep the pregnancy and wait for the husband reaction after telling him the truth. The lord will be your strength.
Posted: at 10-05-2013 08:34 AM (10 years ago) | Newbie
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- Machealex at 10-05-2013 08:47 AM (10 years ago)
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Na the husband get final say. But 4 real men I bet U marriage don finish be datoooo.
Posted: at 10-05-2013 08:47 AM (10 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- vicklove at 10-05-2013 08:51 AM (10 years ago)
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keep the pregnancy
Posted: at 10-05-2013 08:51 AM (10 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- Sophyrocks at 10-05-2013 08:55 AM (10 years ago)
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So i wonder wat advice wud be given to a woman whose husband impregnates anoda woman. No wonder marriage has lost its meaning. If u can advice a man to end his marriage bcos his wife was unfaithful n had a child, den u shud also advise d same for a woman whose husband was unfaithful n had a child outside. U all seem to remember dat word 'FORGIVENESS' wen a man cheats bt wen its a woman, u throw it to d wind. And yet u pray to God to forgive u of ur sins? Are u kid ding me? Yet u al go to church n block d ears of God 4 riches and forgiveness. Dis is d hypocrisy among nigerians dat jesus talked abt. For a marriage to stand, both partners must be ready to forgive each oda, not only d woman doin d forgiving. Do u al knw dat? Jesus wasnt talkin to only women. Unless u married for d wrong reasons, ur marriage is bound to fail.  Well back to d story, To me, abortn is out of it. She shud kip d baby, let d hubby knw abt it n beg fervently 4 his forgiveness. If to say she only cheated witout pregnancy, dat cud hav be pardoned. But she got pregnant, so dis wud make D hubby opt 4 seperatn or divorce, but as long she is remorse, she shud continue to beg. Dis is y distance in marriage isnt encouraged at all. Things wil neva be d same in dat marriage sha. If my man only cheated witout impregnating any woman, dat wud be pardoned. But if he repeats it again or went as far as impregnating, i wil have to divorce b4 i kill sombody's Son. Tolerance has limit. So if d man cnt handle it, its his choice to leave if he wants. But he must accept dat he is d one who cnt make a woman pregnant n so he shud tink abt dat carefuly b4 decidin to marry anoda woman. Wil d nxt woman he meets stay wit him 4 yrs knwin fuly well dat he cnt impregnate a woman? Anyways, d choice is his.

Posted: at 10-05-2013 08:55 AM (10 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- bestbuky at 10-05-2013 08:56 AM (10 years ago)
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hmnnnn
Posted: at 10-05-2013 08:56 AM (10 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- morgrawl231 at 10-05-2013 09:09 AM (10 years ago)
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uhmmmmm,,,,no comment for now,,,,will think about it and come back,,
Posted: at 10-05-2013 09:09 AM (10 years ago) | Hero
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- de-lagan at 10-05-2013 09:12 AM (10 years ago)
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IF ONLY THE HUSBAND KNOWS WHAT TIME IT IS !!!  WHATEVER THAT HAPPENS WHEN THE HUSBAND COMES BACK , SHE HV TO EMBRACE IT WITH WHOLEHEARTEDLY AND MOVE ON . IF SHE STAYS OR GO , WHATEVER , SHE STILL HVE HER UNBORN BABY . AFTERALL SOMETIN LEAD TO SOMTIN .
Posted: at 10-05-2013 09:12 AM (10 years ago) | Newbie
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- eoadex2003 at 10-05-2013 09:19 AM (10 years ago)
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Part 2 of the movie nko?
Posted: at 10-05-2013 09:19 AM (10 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- Confirm4real at 10-05-2013 09:21 AM (10 years ago)
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As the husband, I will send the ex to jail, claim his child and also get a new single girl pregnant as second wife. If my effort is not yeilding in her, it should be fruitful in someone else, just as her effort is not fruitful in me and she go for her ex.

Posted: at 10-05-2013 09:21 AM (10 years ago) | Upcoming
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- Confirm4real at 10-05-2013 09:27 AM (10 years ago)
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Quote from: Sophyrocks on 10-05-2013 08:55 AM
So i wonder wat advice wud be given to a woman whose husband impregnates anoda woman. No wonder marriage has lost its meaning. If u can advice a man to end his marriage bcos his wife was unfaithful n had a child, den u shud also advise d same for a woman whose husband was unfaithful n had a child outside. U all seem to remember dat word 'FORGIVENESS' wen a man cheats bt wen its a woman, u throw it to d wind. And yet u pray to God to forgive u of ur sins? Are u kid ding me? Yet u al go to church n block d ears of God 4 riches and forgiveness. Dis is d hypocrisy among nigerians dat jesus talked abt. For a marriage to stand, both partners must be ready to forgive each oda, not only d woman doin d forgiving. Do u al knw dat? Jesus wasnt talkin to only women. Unless u married for d wrong reasons, ur marriage is bound to fail.  Well back to d story, To me, abortn is out of it. She shud kip d baby, let d hubby knw abt it n beg fervently 4 his forgiveness. If to say she only cheated witout pregnancy, dat cud hav be pardoned. But she got pregnant, so dis wud make D hubby opt 4 seperatn or divorce, but as long she is remorse, she shud continue to beg. Dis is y distance in marriage isnt encouraged at all. Things wil neva be d same in dat marriage sha. If my man only cheated witout impregnating any woman, dat wud be pardoned. But if he repeats it again or went as far as impregnating, i wil have to divorce b4 i kill sombody's Son. Tolerance has limit. So if d man cnt handle it, its his choice to leave if he wants. But he must accept dat he is d one who cnt make a woman pregnant n so he shud tink abt dat carefuly b4 decidin to marry anoda woman. Wil d nxt woman he meets stay wit him 4 yrs knwin fuly well dat he cnt impregnate a woman? Anyways, d choice is his.
Sophy, where did you read that the husband cannot impregnate a woman? It is possible that if you try him, he will get you pregnant. It is also possible that, he is missing the target with that adultrous wife.


Posted: at 10-05-2013 09:27 AM (10 years ago) | Upcoming
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